SETTING THE RIGHT EXPECTATIONS: Apex High School class of 2015 volleyball star loved her college experience, “but it was a job.”
Ally Beckman was an Apex High School sophomore playing at Triangle Volleyball Club when she first heard the chatter about playing in college. “Recruiters were coming to our court at tournaments and talking to our coaches after the games,” Beckman remembers.
But before she ever set foot on campus, she realized her first steps came with a false start. After committing to Georgia Tech, the coach who recruited her accepted another job. “Ultimately, I decided I wanted to play for a coach who had recruited me and wanted me to play for them,” she says.
That’s how Beckman ended up at College of Charleston, where her name is all over the volleyball program’s record book. Her accomplishments came with some sacrifices. “Practices, workouts, lifting, study hall, meetings, travel, meals,” says the 2019 College of Charleston grad. “It was close to a 40-hour workweek. “It’s fun and it’s something you’re very passionate about. But it was a job.’”
As an exercise science major, that left little wiggle room with her remaining hours. “Broadly, I had more responsibilities,” she says. “I couldn’t skip class, whether I wanted to or not. There were already excused absences for volleyball, so absences in general were kind of detrimental to my education.”
The Division I athletic experience varies by school and sport, but playing at the highest competitive level of collegiate sports changes the way the athletes experience university life. “While I did have my share of fun, there were times where I wasn’t able to partake in all the typical college nonsense,” she says. “We were sort of discouraged as far as Greek life, which wasn’t a huge deal at Charleston anyway. It would have taken more time that I didn’t have.”
But Beckman has no regrets about missing some elements of social life. “People say, ‘Oh I missed out on this college experience because of sports.’ I don’t know that I feel the same,” she says. “All the connections I made with everybody, whether those were with all my teammates or other athletes—we were very close-knit with all the other athletes at Charleston. I’m still really appreciative of that.”
Beckman has seen parents go to great lengths to advocate for their young athletes, often directing them to the top programs in the country. A better approach, she says, is to ask a few questions. “You need to step back and say: One, is this actually realistic? Two, is this actually what your child wants? Three, is this going to be a good experience for them, or are they going to get there and last a couple of months and put themselves in the transfer portal? Really talk to your kid and find the program and environment that fits best for their needs—whether that be academic needs, social needs or volleyball needs. A lot of people are going to school just for volleyball rather than looking at the actual school and education.”
Today, Beckman—a graduate of the University of North Carolina Physician Assistant Studies program—works in emergency medicine at a community hospital in Sanford. Her days are hectic and her hours vary. “I see a lot of crazy things. There’s never a day when you’re bored,” she says.
Beckman, who was a setter for both Apex High School and the College of Charleston, ranked second in career assists (5,016) for the College of Charleston and the Colonial Athletic Association. “I’m really grateful for how it prepared me for the real world,” she says. “It taught me how to work with other people to accomplish a similar goal. It taught me how to have a boss. It taught me how to be a leader, especially as a setter. There are a lot of very direct translations into the working world.”